welp. my mom just told me that she wants me to start giving her like any where from 50 to 100 bucks a month to help cover rent/bills etc. and to help buy the groceries more.

which is kinda hilarious seeing how much money i save her on childcare per month and how often i use my own money to groceries as is. 

not to mention the fact that i don’t even fucking live here full time and that she has NEVER had to pay for anything of mine.

not doctors, dentists, braces, eye glasses, birth control, tutoring, text books, or college. and my dad paid child support (and alimony) up until i turned 18, but none of the money was ever used for me. i bought all my own clothes, paid for all of my own things. everything. 

i know that it’s not a lot of money and in theory i can afford it, but she’s listing off all these things she has to pay for and i’m just sitting thinking “yeah, no shit. that’s kinda what comes with being an adult,” and it’s not my fault she can’t manage her money for shit. i mean she never has that much money in her bank account but new things are always showing up in the house and she’s always buying shit that we don’t actually need, so it’s just so hard to take her seriously and i’m so tired of it being my responsibility (at 20 years old) to constantly take care of her and pick up her slack. 

the upside i guess is that i now i have a legit reason for moving out?